You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out
- Stephanie Trexler
- Jul 15
- 1 min read

When life throws us into a season we didn’t choose, whether it’s the loss of a spouse, the unraveling of a marriage, or an unexpected shift in our career, we often feel pressure to bounce back or know what comes next. But here’s something I want you to hear, loud and clear:
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
Sometimes, just getting through the day is enough. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is admit you’re still in the thick of it and that you’re doing your best with what you have. That is more than enough.
If you’re in a space of financial uncertainty, feeling overwhelmed with paperwork, or unsure how to even begin planning for a future that now looks very different, please know this: you don’t have to do it alone. My work exists to hold space for women in transition. Not with judgment. Not with a mile-long to-do list. But with compassion, clarity, and small, steady steps forward.
Let’s give ourselves permission to be in process. To heal at our own pace. And to ask for help when the load gets heavy.
You are allowed to pause. And you are allowed to grow gently.
If you're ready for a partner to walk this journey with you, whether you're newly widowed, navigating divorce, or simply starting over, I’m here. When you’re ready, we can take the next step together.
Warmly, Stephanie
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